OBTAIN SEXUAL CONFIDENCE AT AP LUXURY TOYS

OBTAIN SEXUAL CONFIDENCE AT AP LUXURY TOYS

SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: BE HOT AND IN CONTROL.

Confidence is not something that just appears or washes over us – never mind the sexual type. it is a feeling that really needs to be developed through self-care. It might seem awkward to say, but we do not necessarily build our sexual confidence in the boudoir. Learning how to be confident in bed comes through our lifestyle choices, our mindset and making the right decisions that empower us to be who we want to be – in the bedroom and beyond.
With Instagram famous models flaunting a ‘perfect’ vision of womanhood and unrealistic sexual expectations from porn, we cannot be blamed for sometimes feeling a pressure to ‘keep up’ and do whatever it takes to please our partners. Sexual confidence at AP Luxury Toys is about forgetting this. Forgetting about pleasing everyone else and focusing on pleasing yourself. Sounds great, right? But how do you become sexually confident?

LOSING YOUR SEXUAL CONFIDENCE – HOW TO DEAL WITH IT.

Most of us have probably had those moments where we felt less confident in the bedroom, whether it’s wondering if we are re ‘decent in bed’ (whatever that means!), to wincing when our partner to puts their hands on those ‘jiggly bits’ we’re self-conscious about, or turning the lights down the second our clothes come off. It is a hard habit to break but it is possible. After all, sex is about pleasure & sensuality, there should not be any negative feelings towards it. It is about discovering that sensual and deep connection and experiencing new emotions.
Start by identifying what it is that is undermining and depleting your confidence. Maybe it is your physical appearance (trust AP Luxury Toys – even those catwalk models you think you want to look like have cellulite), or perhaps you feel terrified and intimidated sexually – for example, if he’s told you about the number of partners he has previously had and you’re worried about matching up. The human brain is a complicated thing and it needs a lot of care to keep it healthy.
One thing to remember – your partner is having sex with you! Do you think they’re wasting time examining you for stretch marks or thinking ‘I’m having sex! This feels awesome!’? No chance…

 

HOW TO BECOME SEXUALLY CONFIDENT

We cannot stress this enough, becoming sexually confident in bed is about self-love and truly caring for yourself. Putting pressure on yourself to be confident in the bedroom to please your partner is not productive. At AP Luxury Toys, sexual confidence is all about feeling comfortable in yourself, there is no miracle cure. Do not worry, however, there are some things you can do to help yourself on the road towards sexual confidence.

ADVENTURE INTO WHAT YOU LIKE AT AP LUXURY TOYS

Adventure into what you want – otherwise it is hard to have that confidence. Spend some time practicing self-pleasure. If you know what you really like in the boudoir when you are in complete control, it will be easier for you to guide your partner towards the things you know you like. Masturbation should not be a taboo, it is an important part of your sexual exploration (plus, you know, it feels great!).

 

 

WE WANT YOU TO BE YOURSELF.

 

It is truly fine to appreciate other women, but there is an exceptionally fine line between appreciation and unhealthy comparison. So many of the women you follow on Instagram really do not look like that in real life, so you are not even comparing yourself to something that actually exists in reality. Follow accounts you can identify with – there are so many inspirational women out there who look like you do – it’s so much better for your confidence. Take time to celebrate what is beautiful about you. This can help you to see yourself in a better light and learn to love yourself more.

 

 

IMPRESS YOURSELF, BEFORE ANYONE ELSE.

 

Worried about how to appear sexier for guys? Forget it, think about what makes you feel sexy! Forget dressing in the lingerie that you think your partner wants to see. Wear something you feel confident and sexy in; this confidence will do so much more to turn your partner on… the lingerie will do the rest.

 

 

BE KIND AND LOVING … TO YOU!

 

Any confident and content person must love themselves. When you look in the mirror, take some time to compliment yourself and consciously stop any negative self-talk to yourself the way you would talk to your best friend. Make sure you are not the person who makes you unhappy. This general mood will carry itself into the bedroom.

 

 

LOOK AFTER YOUR BODY AND IN TURN, IT WILL LOOK AFTER YOU.

 

If you feel unhealthy and think you need to hit the gym, do it. If you feel like you need to do some grooming, get it done. Whether you are right or wrong, sitting back and not doing the things you want to do will only make you feel guilty. Just make sure you are doing it on your own terms because you want to.

 

 

EXPERIMENT WITH NEW TOYS AT ap luxury toys

 

Open the door to a world of sexual exploration and try something new. This is even better if both you and your partner are first timers, after all, if you’re both beginners there’s no reason to feel self-conscious (not that there would be anyway). Experiment with your first sex toys, try your hand at tantric sex, or assert some control with bondage.

 

 

TAKE CONTROL WITH FEW OF OUR BEST TIPS.

 

If we want to take control in the bedroom, as women we must work together. Sharing our knowledge is the best way to blow our partners’ minds and show them we mean business. Brush up on some blow job tips to raise the bar in bed. Your new tricks might encourage him to raise his game the next time he goes down on you.

 

 

BE SEXY. BE FLIRTATIOUS. BE YOU.

 

The key to feeling happier in any aspect of your life lies in becoming comfortable with yourself and taking the time to practice this daily. Learn some sexual confidence affirmations that you can repeat to yourself when you are struggling to get past your self-doubt. For example, think about how you are happy with the pleasure that your body can give you, rather than concentrating on any negative thoughts about how it looks.

 

The Pleasure Positivity Project is about women standing up and taking control of their sexuality. It’s about feeling free to say what you want and to go get it, without the fear of being judged. We want to create a place where women everywhere are provided a platform to be openly sexual and confident.

 

Most of all, remember that YOU are the key to your sexual confidence. It might not come overnight, but it will come. And when it does… so will you!

 

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